should members have autonomy when recieving gifts/vip from members

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I think there should be an options to choose if you want to accept or deny gifts that have been sent to you because some people will send gifts and expect something in return, which I personally don't want to do.

 

[Dagger]

just don't return the favour. they've gifted of their own choosing, there's no rule saying you have to gift them back

 

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just don't return the favour. they've gifted of their own choosing, there's no rule saying you have to gift them back

No one said that members are gifting them back. We should have the choosing to reject their gift/vip.

 

[Dagger]

No one said that members are gifting them back. We should have the choosing to reject their gift/vip.

so then what is being expected in return that doesn't need to be given then

 

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Friendships, relationships and more...

 

[Dagger]

no can still mean no even if gifts get sent
or just block them

 

[original Jpeg]

Are you saying that we could Block them before they send the gifts or vip?...can't see how that will work if we don't know about it until it has already happened. Blocking someone for sending a gift is not the solution. If we had a notification asking us if we want to accept or regect, we then have more autonomy, which we currently do not have here.

 

[Dagger]

no, block them if they're persisting on the "expected things in return" or whatever you feel would be the best way to decline whatever they want from you

 

[Taceaux]

someone's complaining about being gifted...lmfao...what has this chat site come to? lol

 

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no, block them if they're persisting on the "expected things in return" or whatever you feel would be the best way to decline whatever they want from you

Sure, I understand that but that doesn't change my intial point and i'm not looking for advice, I am trying to make a change.

 

[KiwiMinx]

someone's complaining about being gifted...lmfao...what has this chat site come to? lol

I can actually understand where she is coming from... There would be nothing worse than if someone was being creepy and they purchased VIP for you. They would then feel that you 'owed them something'. Similar to gifting. I'm not sure if anything can come of it, but I do think it's a good idea

 

[ChatMaster]

I think it’s a fair point but you can remove a gift you’ve received.

 

[hereforchat]

I think it’s a fair point but you can remove a gift you’ve received.

i agree chatmaster

 

[randyandy]

I think it’s a fair point but you can remove a gift you’ve received.

i didn't know that. how can you remove gifts? also, on the other side of things, is it possible to include a "gift card" with a gift?

 

[KiwiMinx]

i didn't know that. how can you remove gifts? also, on the other side of things, is it possible to include a "gift card" with a gift?

You can go to 'edit profile' then to your gift page. When you click on the gift, you have the option to delete.

 

[KiwiMinx]

I would love it if it showed who the gift was from on chatters walls lol... would be highly amusing! Would possibly be the cause of a lot of chatroom divorces though lmao

 

[randyandy]

I would love it if it showed who the gift was from on chatters walls lol... would be highly amusing! Would possibly be the cause of a lot of chatroom divorces though lmao

privacy is a must. (especially if people are getting unwanted gifts while they're offline and therefore don't have the option of deleting them).

 

[Puckstick]

I would love it if it showed who the gift was from on chatters walls lol... would be highly amusing! Would possibly be the cause of a lot of chatroom divorces though lmao

I'd love that, I've always got plenty of popcorn ready.

 

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So can we remove vip that has been gifted to us?

 

[Cyx]

Personally, I have never removed a gift sent from another user as I greatly appreciate them. But now that I think of it, if someone does delete the gift, does the person get refunded the amount of gold they spent on the gift or no?