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am I doing the right thing ?

Kaci2

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dysphoria is a bitch, I've been on this trip for over 2 years the last 16 months on HRT waiting for both bottom and top surgeries, the time is killing me it's bringing back
the uncertainty of assurance, I keep questioning my competency, I thought I was ready but the fear of the unknown is scaring the hell out of me, I attend an LGBTQ+
group they are very supportive of my apprehension, I know I want this but mentally I feel inept and under confident, I've made major transitions socially and mentally
but I'm still stuck in the fear mode, coming out wasn't easy I'm just glad my children support my change and understand what brought me to this point, it's me.
 
Be who you are! Be proud of the person that you have become. Be the man that you want to be and show the world who and what you are capable of! This world is full of haters, but don’t let them take over you. You are a strong and independent man and deserve to be happy. I’m sure your kids and your partner will love you just the way you are and make you happy. Stay strong! (btw I am gay, so I know what you are going through. I understand what it’s like. If you want to talk, feel free to PM me on the site. My user is Alec Volturi)
 
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