Trust

[Rihanna_dav1112]

For myself, I really have to emphasize communication and trust.
I am a firm believer that if you don't trust your partner, there's no point to the relationship.
I also believe that without communication, issues cannot be resolved and resentment can only grow, leading to unhappy relationships and messy breakups.

 

[Veritas]

Oh absolutely.
Communication is huge in any relationship. If you dont communicate, you can't resolve any issues and then things get progressively worse.

 

[Emo ocean]

Trust no one

 

[Ukkyle]

Trust no one

I tend to trust people unless they give me reason not to

 

[Emo ocean]

I tend to trust people unless they give me reason not to

Fools errand

 

[Ukkyle]

Fools errand

So far it’s worked doesn’t mean I’m naive

 

[JohnnyDanger]

For myself, I really have to emphasize communication and trust.
I am a firm believer that if you don't trust your partner, there's no point to the relationship.
I also believe that without communication, issues cannot be resolved and resentment can only grow, leading to unhappy relationships and messy breakups.

Trust is absolutely key. Effective communication is also extremely important! Sometimes trusting can be hard, especially if you’ve been in a bad relationship before. But don’t let bad experiences dictate where your future relationships go

 

[doodoo]

Trust no one

except yourself

 

[doodoo]

I tend to trust people unless they give me reason not to

nope. wrong.

 

[Seraphina]

I tend to trust people unless they give me reason not to

Everyone will eventually give you reason not to. It's what you choose to do after that point that matters.

 

[Cyclops]

In general, I say: Don't trust anyone, not even yourself. Don't trust by default. Forget the benefit of the doubt.


When we consult the works of Psychology, it is said to establish what is called Dynamic Social Homeostasis; don't protect yourself too much from others and don't align too much (don't be too trusting). Your gauge indication should be right in the middle between distrust and trust.

In the context of a relationship: Yes, trust and communication are the foundational pillars upon which everything else rests. Without communication, there will be increasing bitterness.

Both gates need to be open. However, when searching for (re)establishing trust, it is key to communicate in a welcoming, calm way. One overseen fact is that people will stop listening to you if your stance is offensive. Your message may only come across if you wrap it in a welcoming envelope.

 

[Livia]

Everyone will eventually give you reason not to. It's what you choose to do after that point that matters.

I couldnt of put it better myself x

 

[Livia]

For myself, I really have to emphasize communication and trust.
I am a firm believer that if you don't trust your partner, there's no point to the relationship.
I also believe that without communication, issues cannot be resolved and resentment can only grow, leading to unhappy relationships and messy breakups.

Deep