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Seeking Advice

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Brendon
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So I have a boyfriend, his name is Joseph, we live in the same state and he's a 40 minute drive away from me basically.
He moves in 6 states to another state that's decently far, and due to the living situation, he may not be able to contact me for a very very long time. I'm talking years.
I don't wanna give up hope, but I'm worried about where the relationship will go, we're heavily in love and have been for a year (losing contact here and there). He's different from others and I'm heavily in love with him. He's the one. Hell, we're even engaged.
I don't know what to do but I seek out advice, all I've gotten so far is "distance makes the heart grow fonder" which it does, which is why it's gonna be a fight to be okay. Or "break up with him" which out of the question. I'm not leaving someone I'm still romantically interested in and engaged to.

I don't know what to do. Any advice?
 
Is there any possibility of the two of you moving in together?
Unfortunately not with the living situation he's going to be in. We tried but his dad just won't let it happen due to him paying for the education of this job career thing
 
Some things happen for a reason, we just don't see that reason before or during the process.

Some decisions are harder to make than others, but in the end, everything will work out the way it was intended for you.

Which ever way it works out for the both of you, it is going to see some hard days, weeks and months, but just have faith that it will work out in the end.
 
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