My girlfriend introduced me as a friend.

[Sloppyfart]

We were at the mall and her and what seemed to be and old male friend recognized each other in passing. I say old because I’ve never met this guy in our years of dating so he must be from her past. She immediately got flustered and introduced me as her friend. A mistake she’s never made before. There was what seemed to be a very long awkward pause as I waited for her to correct herself. She eventually did but it sounded reluctant. Why do I feel embarrassed and disrespected? Or am I just overthinking this?

Your insight is much appreciated!

 

[Chatter]

 

[Taceaux]

oh here we go again...the same girlfriend who bullies u?....and now ur "just a friend".....

dude....

 

[Sloppyfart]

oh here we go again...the same girlfriend who bullies u?....and now ur "just a friend".....

dude....

I think things are getting better Since the arrest and up coming court date Mr and her have been talking. Something that started to bother her recently is that I told mher that I considers myself more feminine than masculine.

This is understandable given my past (parents divorced, dad left). overall, she says she is really attracted to me - I am handsome and our sex life is amazing (although a little vanilla). however, she says some of my mannerisms are indeed feminine and are starting to bother her. for example, I sometimes gets emotional and excited about things and uses a high pitched voice, which turns her off.

When she confronts me about this, I gets sad and embarrassed and am quick to try to change my behavior, but it feels wrong to change who i am