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I cried infront of my gf and think she finds it a turn off

Sloppyfart

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I have cried a lot in front of her. And almost all of the times have been because I love her so much and when we get soft with each other or she looks deeply into my eyes and smiles, I can’t help but cry. It is truly an instinctive response..the tears form so fast and I can’t help it. She hugs me during those moments and says I’m just
soft, but I can’t help but think she thinks I’m a weak man or I’m too emotional.

Another time I cried was when her friend saw a story of me on IG and responded to my gf’s story with “little man” because my gf calls me her “little man friend” endearingly. I saw that and felt really hurt (while on edibles) and got a bit teary, because of the comment and also because of how much my gf was reassuring me. I felt so weak in front of her being insecure about my height and being seen as small. Even asking her if she thought about wanting a bigger taller guy. She said she didn’t get an ick and that she likes I’m vulnerable with her and will always reassure me.

I just worry deep down she isn’t going to be sexually attracted to me anymore because of me being emotional. I see TikToks and videos on twitter of women saying how they get an ick when they see their bf cry or when they see their bf getting beat up. It just makes me feel insecure. How do I deal with this?
 
now if men where to behave like this towards woman, they would be labeled mysogynists who are sterotyping and generalising gender traits.

A weak man hides

A strong man is comfortable enough with himself to show emotion.

no one should make you feel less of a person because they are so insecure with themselves that they have to criticise another.

If it were me, I would try and have a chat with her and tell her how you feel. If that doesn't help you are potentially leaving yourself open to being in an abusive relationship, so leave her.
 
Do you even have a girlfriend? No offense.

frustrated seriously GIF
 
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